When my girlfriends and I talk about a hook-up, it's literally step 1 nudes, step 2 going to a person's house or they coming to yours, and step 3 leaving before the morning. If I were to say no hook-ups, that's what I'd mean.
We're all definitely willing to sleep with a guy the first time we meet them as long we we meet in public, they exhibit normal human behaviour, and we're attracted to them in person. All I'm saying is that a hook up means a particular kind of no-string sex to a lot of girls not better, not worse , while sleeping with someone is meeting them beforehand.
You can call it semantics, but there's been a lot of people wondering what girls mean when they say no hookup but post sexy photos. It usually means - I'm not willing to come to your house right away, I'll meet up with you for a drink so I can see if I still find you attractive in person and can escape if you're not.
hookup (v) other spellings/forms: hook-up, hook up, hooked up, hooking up To of 20 and 35 it generally means to have sex, and if a very old person says it. Hooking up has come to define sexual relationships for most of today's teens and young I was just hooking up with this guy and man did it blow my mind.
I'm not saying any of it is wrong, people can do what they want as long as no one is getting hurt unless that's part of the role play. It's like calling a house a castle. It's my house, in no way does it resemble a castle in any way other than what I tell myself.
As I said, I can get your perspective, but it doesn't change the fact that for women hook up no-strings sex is different than sleeping together no-strings sex.
Whether that's semantically right or wrong is a different point and if we should be calling both hook ups doesn't change that they describe two different situations to us. In my eyes, no hook-ups is a way to weed to the low effort matches.
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